PS. I get the "happy on my own" part...I enjoy my own company (weird, I know). One of the reasons that my boys and I get along is that they have learned to be present with me without engaging me actively - I am doing my stuff, they do their stuff, we don't have to be doing the SAME stuff. I have found very few people in my life that can accomplish this - I cherish the ones who can.
Me: poly bi female, in an "open-but-not-looking" V-plus with -
MrS: hetero polyflexible male, live-in husband (24+ yrs)
Dude: hetero poly male, live-in boyfriend (5+ yrs) and MrS's BFF
SLeW: platonic girlfriend and BFF
Lotus: "it's complicated"
+ "others" = FBs, FWBs, lover-friends, platonic G/BFs, boytoys, etc.
My poly blogs here:
The Journey of JaneQSmythe
The Notebook of JaneQSmythe