Thread: A jealous Ex
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Old 12-27-2009, 05:30 AM
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IMO, if she is an "ex", then he needs to sever ties with her and ask/demand that she stop contacting him, harrassing him, stalking him, whatever you want to call it.

If he's interested in maintaining some kind of relationship with her (which I think would be ill advised, personally), then you need to decide if you're willing to be involved in the drama of it.

I personally don't think the 3 of you sitting down would be in any way productive, since she's already pretty much indicated that she is not willing to accept any form of poly or open relationship, going so far as to term it "disgusting" and so forth.

As Jonny said, I think that this is something he needs to figure out on his own ... but you do have the right, IMO, to not have it invade your relationship with him and to ask him to either resolve it or move on.
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