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Old 12-01-2012, 06:13 AM
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Oh, I actually feel rather sorry for this woman. :/ Here she may well think that you are pursuing her as a serious interest, and yet under the rules of your relationship, you and she can only be intimate once -- that's actually rather tragic in a way, if she's developing real feelings for you. I would tell her at once, via email, and let her decide if she wants to go any further. Also, I would strongly consider renegotiating your arrangement with your wife. It just seems cruel, to the other women if not to you. I mean, go to swinger's clubs if you're just going to sleep with a woman once and then never again, don't go through the motions of trying to develop something meaningful.
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