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Old 12-01-2012, 05:22 AM
JaneQSmythe JaneQSmythe is offline
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Originally Posted by Phy View Post
...this was our first “I am too upset to talk to you right now and will better go to sleep” one. And this is so new, that I am not as much upset by now than curious how this will work out and what we will do over the course of the day and so on. Really strange situation...
I just wanted to say that I had a similar experience when Dude and I had our first "fight" where he actually got upset with me. (I disagree with him all of the time, and love to have an intellectual battle...but this was different.) I was less concerned about the actual conflict (which was not a big "dealbreaker" type) and more bemused and interested as to how it would play itself out.

I think I MUST have had similar feelings the first time MrS and I had an argument but I really can't remember...Curiouser and curiouser...

Me: poly bi female, in an "open-but-not-looking" Vee-plus with -
MrS: hetero polyflexible male, live-in husband (together 21+ yrs)
Dude: hetero poly male, live-in boyfriend (together 3+ yrs) and MrS's best friend
Lotus: poly bi female, "it's complicated" relationships with Dude/JaneQ/MrS
TT: poly bi male, married to Lotus, FB with JaneQ
VV and MsJ: bi-women with male primaries, LTR LDR FWBs to JaneQ

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