We have had many more lengthy discussions here about it all. I've cleared up a lot in my head. Part of which is that the whole flirting thing is really my uneasiness about them having a past. Instead of us learning to love this new person together he has someone he already has a level of comfort with and I do not. Which is ok but makes me feel left out of the loop a bit. But knowing that now we can work it out. Like I said it's all new andvsometimes emotions pop up that you don't even know about until it's too late lol. So wish us luck
sorry for any typos on my phone and it's hard to see.