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Old 11-29-2012, 10:24 PM
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I had an affair with my now boyfriend. That was the "gateway fuck up" that led us to a polydynamic.

It was an emotional nightmare. I've written quite a bit about it on here in the past.

Getting through to something workable and healthy for hte group as a whole has been very difficult and only in the last couple of months have we started to really make serious progress (it's been 3 years since we started poly and honesty). The big change was a poster here pointing out that in order to be happy going forward-the "punishment" has to end at some point.

Anyway-not sure precisely what you are wanting to know but I'm more than willing to share. Also Maca (my husband) has posted about his feelings here too...
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