oh Dagferi, I'm so sorry. Surgery is often icky. Sounds like you're having a good recovery.
I'm stressed. The job I'm doing (in addition to my own) has been advertised. I'm getting good counsel to apply, but I'm not certain I want it. Not crazy about my boss. He's okay, and likely better than whatever I get if I don't apply. I'm so stressed (by doing two jobs since may, and my employer is in a heap of upheaval) I don't feel like I can make a good decision. Guess if that's my biggest problem, my life is pretty good.
Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own...
Robert A. Heinlein
Me: female, bi, (formerly hinge of a vee)
with FirstBoyFriend (FBF)(moderately long-distance)
and no longer with CurrentBoyFriend (CBF)(who now lives in a house far away-with stairs I can't climb)