Poly is what you make it.
Youve put down and agreed to your rules, and those rules may change in the future.
Anytime you open yourself to more than one commited loving romantic relationship, sexual or not, you are poly, IMHO
I hope things progress nicely for you and the people on these boards are VERY helpful!
- For the pursuit of happiness, not the sit around and wait for happiness -
Jen - bi female
John (Juntas)- husband
M - John's girlfriend