Originally Posted by AnotherConfused
Now my husband says he will be fine with me going on overnight trips, so long as there is no sexual intimacy. C and I have picked a date at the end of next week. I told my husband I need to be sure this is really our agreement -not his ideal situation, nor mine, but a compromise we are both agreeing to, and that I will not be accused of doing anything wrong if I stick to it. He says yes. I hope it works.
May I suggest you both putting the agreement in writing and signing it? Especially the bit about not accusing you of wrongdoing as long as you've stuck to the agreement. I understand there might be feelings of "We don't need this, we're grown ups" but looking at the history...you might.
Pan Female, Hinge in a V between my mono (straight) husband, Monochrome and my poly (pan) partner, ThatGuyInBlack