We have an understanding about what behaviors are allowable for what type of relationship (platonic friend behaviors/fwb behaviors/committed full time gf/bf).
So-we don't give a play by play as things happen or when they first happen.
It's "hey-I'm moving this friend to committed gf level". Then we know what types of behaviors COULD be happening-but we don't need to know when or exactly what.
For example, I have someone I have identified at a specific level, but I haven't chosen to DO any of the behaviors that I COULD for that level of relationship. But if I do and when I do-I don't need to check in over that again-it's already established that those activities are acceptable.
"Love As Thou Wilt"