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Old 11-26-2012, 11:14 PM
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Hello Romancestar,
Welcome to our forum.

So, right now you just have the occasional three-some, but you'd like something more long-term? If so, you could sit down with your other half, and say something like, "Honey, I've enjoyed the three-somes we've had. In fact I'd like to try more, perhaps something more long-term. Is that something you could consider? Or, can we do some kind of compromise?"

No matter how nicely you ask, the answer may still be, "No." You have to be prepared for that. Sometimes we have to make hard decisions about what we can or can't live with, what is a hard boundary for us or a deal-breaker, and how long we can wait if we think the other person might eventually have a change of heart.

Hopefully you'll find some helpful tips as you look around and post on our site.

Glad to have you aboard,
Kevin T.
Love means never having to say, "Put down that meat cleaver!"
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