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Old 11-26-2012, 07:25 PM
sparklepop sparklepop is offline
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Join Date: Jun 2012
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I know it's hard. I used to really, really struggle at the beginning of my poly relationship too. I used to question whether or not I could handle it... but, with trial and error, some soul searching, and a lot of communicating and work... I finally feel that I'm on the right track. Time, experience and knowledge will help you figure out if being poly is something you want/need, or if it just does not fit right with you.

Have a read through this amazing article that Gala Girl first posted - it really helped me to put jealousy and insecurity in its place:

me: open poly (31, female)

involved with:
GF: (41, female) my long-distance, long-term partner
Earth: (35, female) newly dating

Hubby: (38, male) GF's husband
Garcon: (28, male) GF's boyfriend/submissive

“Peace comes from within. Do not seek it without." ~ Buddha
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