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Old 11-26-2012, 02:43 AM
JaneQSmythe JaneQSmythe is offline
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Originally Posted by fuchka View Post
Ah, closets. I don't find it too claustrophobic, though. I have Narnia in mine
You made me smile today - Thank you!

It seems as though you are more bemused than bothered by the DADT policy in place in your metamour's relationship. It also seems as though Bert is probably comfortable, or becoming so, with information that he "knows" but doesn't want to verbalize yet? Maybe, if work-folks/family/etc. are more of an issue he is actually looking more for some sort of "plausible deniability" and a filter against "Too Much Information"?

Me: poly bi female, in an "open-but-not-looking" V-plus with -
MrS: hetero polyflexible male, live-in husband (24+ yrs)
Dude: hetero poly male, live-in boyfriend (6+ yrs) and MrS's BFF
SLeW: platonic hetero girlfriend and BFF
MrClean: hetero mono male, almost lover-friend to me, FWBs to SLeW
+ "others" = FBs, FWBs, lover-friends, platonic G/BFs, boytoys, etc.

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