Originally Posted by fuchka
But it feels like I'm choosing to take offence, in a passive-aggressive or self-sabotage-y way. It's usually over a tiny thing ....
it wasn't even that I particularly wanted to try the dessert, it was almost like I was attracted to the excuse (however small) to be jealous.
this really resonated with me. I do this too, sometimes.
why do we feel the need to sabotage ourselves?