Originally Posted by dingedheart
If and when role are reversed how would you want to be reassured that he loves you most ? Maybe work backwards from there.
Not necessarily. If for example Person A feels loved as the result of spending quality time together but Person B feels loved as a result of receiving a surprise box of his favourite chocolates, then Person B giving chocolates to Person A isn't going to be instinctively understood by Person A to mean that they are loved. Person B needs to work out what Person A understands as an expression of love and do that instead.
Moneypenny, perhaps you could look at what your husband does when he's expressing love and do the same for him to show he's loved. He's more likely to understand love in the same "love language" he shows it in. Confused yet? This book
explains it much better than I can.