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Old 11-25-2012, 02:02 AM
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Originally Posted by AlixDomme View Post
Why can't I just be happy *enough* with what I have??
Have you tried?

If you rely on others to provide your emotional foundation you'll always be at risk of having it unexpectedly pulled out from under you. If you work on fulfilling your own needs you reduce that risk and place a lot less pressure on those around you. I've seen people on here describing it as "being your own Primary".
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