Perhaps one day it'll be looked at with less shame to have a disability, which is certainly a wish of mine, as that alone can be something that makes things worse to deal with it. It's not like most people did anything to deserve it.
As for not needing to understand, I don't see where I used that wording, but I'm thinking you might mean the last part that I had said, about rather not having others be able to understand. I think I didn't word that as well as I could have now that I reread it XD
What I meant, was not wishing it on others to be able to understand through firsthand experience. Not wanting other people to go through the pain and problems that come along with having such things.
Thanks so much for the reference, I'll have to keep it in mind^^