My boyfriend, Ginger, has shown me his joke female profile, no picture, short profile... He gets messages every week, even from guys telling "her" she's cute, when there is no picture!
Haha, I am telling him about this thread and Helo's resistance to "what women want," and he said,
"Can't put out effort at first or she will expect you to put out effort later, or even in bed."
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
There's no lying in polyamory!
I'm a 58 year old woman with 2 partners:
miss pixi, my live-in gf, 36 (together since Jan '09)
Ginger, bf, 61, married, lives nearby (together since Jan '12)