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Old 11-23-2012, 09:06 PM
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I have much better luck in person than I do online. Shorty was a fix-up from a mutual friend, and others I've dated since embracing poly I have met in various situations, like parties, in stores, waiting in a line somewhere, Starbucks -- it's endless, actually because I tend to strike up conversations wherever I am. There were lots more places I met people before I embraced poly- the subway, the laundromat, an interstate bus, the post office, classes, etc. All the dates I have had via OKC never were fruitful in the long run, but real life usually is better for me.
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