Thanks for the tip SeventhCrow
Seriously, I want to thank you.
I went onto OKC a few minutes after you suggested it, not long after I posted my profile, I found myself in a wonderful conversation with a married, new to polyamory woman within the area. Both of us are dealing with some of the same issues, though her husband isn't already in a tight close relationship with someone, but... very similar.
We talked on the phone today, and have coffee plans for the end of the weekend. I'm pretty stoked about how it all kind of just fell together like that.
We're really careful about whom we let meet our daughter, even social acquaintances, and really my wife wants to be out of the house when she's with her friend.
Perhaps further down the road we will be there, but we're not there now.
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