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Old 11-22-2012, 05:44 PM
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Originally Posted by TOROdeSerenity View Post
do I go for it or allow my primary partner to have her new girlfriend all to herself? (I'm currently talking to some girls but not actively dating- just courting online.. I have alot of unrelated transitional strife I'm more interested in dealing with right now and I'm considering not dating anyone else, just focusing on my inner issues).
Well, there's your answer, I'd say.

It also sounds like you and your gf need to discuss boundaries.

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And another question. . If she's now my girlfriends' girlfriend how should I introduce her to friends? suggestions? It's not like I have 2 girlfriends through osmosis or do I? I plan to build our relationship up before we go into public but I would like your suggestions on how to introduce poly relationships to family and friends.
They've only just started seeing each other. Just use the term "friend" to introduce for now.
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