What Nycindie said. If it was a long impersonal message informing both of you about travel plans then ending with "...love you guys. XX O0", that would be one thing. But if it was supposed to be a personal message yet someone couldn't find the time to speak to me as an individual, that message would be worth about nothing to me. You might let your partner know how you feel about it rather than just finding a way to cope with it.