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Old 11-21-2012, 10:25 PM
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Originally Posted by NyxKnocks View Post
My main issue is that I do not identify as being bisexual, and I feel that is what is expected of me. I'm ok with kissing and a little touching, but beyond that I get extremely uncomfortable. If I try and communicate this to him he kinda just brushes it off and saying I'll "get there" eventually.
You'll get there? My gawd. He is being completely disrespectful. You don't have to be bisexual to be poly. Next time he brushes you off, stand your ground and tell him it isn't acceptable not to listen to your concern or to think he can change you to be bisexual simply for his own gratification. That's ridiculous.

Don't put up with shit like that.
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