On the first pass -- is is hitting SMART for you?
Then on the repass -- is it hitting SMART for her? ASK her. Because she's not at a place where she's tending to looking after it herself. Is this proposed agreement actually DOABLE for you because it hits your SMART place? Does the agreement need more tweaks? RELATE to me gf!
Thanks GG! I absolutely agree with this and said as much to her today... to speak up, make sure she gets her point across... and I will be much more aware now that she (and I) might not be communicating in the best way!