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Old 11-21-2012, 01:32 PM
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Originally Posted by SchrodingersCat View Post
I think it's good to take those feelings out of the bottle, and dangerous to criticize him for doing so...
I very much agree with this, and BravoDelta and DingedHeart.

Here's a man who loved his wife enough to sacrifice his own comfort, to sacrifice what he expected and presumably was promised in marriage, out of concern for his wife's health.

Not surprisingly, given human nature, given what most people want out of marriage, given that most people want monogamy from their spouse...he's struggling.

And now he's being criticized for it.

I think most men never would have even tried.

I personally believe that having feelings for another person is fairly normal, but does not require us to act on them.

Best of luck to you. I'm sorry you're hurting.
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