I'd suggest working with a counselor to mourn the lost of your marriage and hammer out a frame on how a cohabitation could work....if they work? Separate rooms or floors....the expectations and responsibilities.
The difficulty or difficulties I'd think are going to be in the shared space and the memories and those trigger's combined with old patterns, that might be very confusing. Feeling married but not really....being in On mans land ....or being in a very very s l o w break up mentally.
Good luck D
Last edited by dingedheart; 11-20-2012 at 09:43 PM.