I believe new members need approval by the moderators for a little while, which delays their posts showing up. Also, make sure when you login that you check the little box next to "Remember Me" and you won't be booted off while composing long posts.
Independent solo polyamorist seeking lover-friends willing to invest in friendship, companionship, and love, but without a need for partnership.
Never confuse commitment with exclusivity, love with ownership, nor sex with intimacy!
For me, it is far better to grasp the Universe as it really is than to persist in delusion, however satisfying and reassuring.
~ Carl Sagan