Lol, thanks for the laugh. I bet that will do it.
I am not with Ben because he has me thinking that nor is it an abusive relationship. We love each other very much, but there are things that I need in my life that he isn't willing to do, therefore now that I have someone willing to consider the things that I want from a relationship, I do not want to just leave one man for another. I love Ben, but I do think I am falling for another, and that puts me in a spot where it's either one or both and damn it I choose both.