I had a lover (maybe more than) who used to say, 'doesn't matter where you get your appetite, as long as you eat at home.'
Me, I HATED that. A huge component of the whole shebang for me, is being wanted. For me. Most of the pissed off that I feel, I feel when I think my boys are ignoring me. And that's a lot. They're not, they just have very different focus in their lives, and approach to their lives.
If you don't want to be with me, go be with whom you want. If/when you want ME, let me know.
Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own...
Robert A. Heinlein
Me: female, bi, (formerly hinge of a vee)
with FirstBoyFriend (FBF)(moderately long-distance)
and no longer with CurrentBoyFriend (CBF)(who lives in the apartment building next door)