Originally Posted by JaneQSmythe
Sourgirl, I would also point out that, for those of us who have never had children, a miscarriage also brings the grief of missing out on motherhood itself as well as the loss of that particular child and the hopes and dream for them.
Then point it out to other women who have miscarried without previous children.
That grief is different, ( which is not a veiled remark that its somehow 'less'. )
The OP has previous children, and I spoke from the actual experience of.