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Old 11-18-2012, 09:50 PM
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In a nutshell, if she's not okay with a polyamorous relationship, she needs to figure out how to get okay with it.

The only alternative as I see it is to go back to being friends without the sexual/romantic component.

You were open about your nature all along. She really has no right to get involved in a polyamorous person, then later decide she's not okay with a polyamorous relationship, and expect you to be the one to make the changes.

I suggest asking her to read Tristan Taormino's Opening Up. It will give her insight into your feelings. Wouldn't hurt for you to read it, either.
As I am sure any cat owner will be able to tell you,
someone else putting you in a box is entirely different
from getting into a box yourself.
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