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Old 11-17-2012, 11:58 AM
JaneQSmythe JaneQSmythe is offline
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Join Date: Jan 2012
Location: Pennsyl-tucky
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I don't have children. I have had two miscarriages. The second was likely fathered by my boyfriend, with the consent of everyone involved.

I wrote a bit about it here.

I have now resigned myself to never bearing children. Which does not mean that I don't still have the urge to do so.

Sourgirl, I would also point out that, for those of us who have never had children, a miscarriage also brings the grief of missing out on motherhood itself as well as the loss of that particular child and the hopes and dream for them.

Me: poly bi female, in an "open-but-not-looking" Vee-plus with -
MrS: hetero polyflexible male, live-in husband (22+ yrs)
Dude: hetero poly male, live-in boyfriend (3+ yrs) and MrS's best friend
Lotus: poly bi married female, "it's complicated" relationships with Dude/JaneQ/MrS (1+ years)
+ "others" = FBs, FWBs, lover-friends, platonic G/BFs, boytoys, etc.

My poly blogs here:
The Journey of JaneQSmythe
The Notebook of JaneQSmythe
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