Help the n00b?
What do you do when you've found someone who says they are ok with you having others...but really are not?
Do you take them at their word?
I am JUST getting out of a marriage.
I am just starting with a lovely woman...who's giving me signs that make me think she's very NOT ok with...what I told her I was looking for.
Which is a few good friends to have sex with...not seriousness, not monogamy.
I will never be chained by my word and left desperately lonely as my soon-to-be-ex did.