I'm very happy for you Cleo!
Reading through your blog it sound like there have been a number of things that you were nervous about that, when you girded your loins and addressed them, ended up working out better than you thought it might. Congratulations!
Although there is no promise that future issues will go as smoothly you now know that not every case will necessarily turn into a "worst case scenario" - go you!
Hugs and Happiness to you.
Me: poly bi female, in an "open-but-not-looking" Vee-plus with -
MrS: hetero, probably mono male, my live-in husband (together for 21 years, married for 17)
Dude: hetero, probably poly male, my live-in boyfriend (of 2 years; friends for longer) and MrS's best friend (for several years longer than that)
VV and MsJ: bisexual women with male primaries, LDR FWBs (of 19 and 7 years)
My poly blogs on this site:
The Journey of JaneQSmythe
The Notebook of JaneQSmythe