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Old 11-13-2012, 09:33 PM
dg77 dg77 is offline
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Default New triad relationship :) Would love advice and feedback

Hi-

Well....until about 2 months ago, I had no idea about polyamory, or triads or anything else for that matter.

My husband J and I have been happily married for 11 years, and together for even longer. We're childless and in our mid 30's.

My dear friend J and I have been friends for over 5 years, and recently, she started hanging around with my husband and I a lot more. It was a lot of fun when the 3 of us are together. The dynamic was neat, and something really clicked. Late in August, after a bunch of drinking and goofiness, we ended up having a threesome, which was my and my husband's first. And, it was my first time with a woman. It was nothing short of amazing. And, everything felt so normal, and natural and not weird.

Well, that started more regular threesomes, and we just all became kind of inseparable. And we both started to have strong feelings towards her. What's even weirder for me is that I am a normally jealous person, and I don't feel that at all when she interacts with my husband. I am also slightly taken aback (but in a good way) about how easy it is for me to have such strong feelings for 2 people at once, and not feel bad about it.

We have just kind of let things ride- a lot of talking about feelings and expectations, just making sure things are out in the open. And it's wonderful. We're in the process of planning our first trip together.

When things started to get a little more regular and serious, I started google (thank goodness for the internets lol) and realized that there is a name/label fir this and there are other people out there like us).

I don't have rose colored glasses on-but I am truly amazed about how naturally and normally all 3 of us have fallen into this.

Looking forward to hearing from folks!
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