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Old 11-13-2012, 06:25 PM
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Maybe you're coming across as crowding and needy and that's a turn-off? I didn't get that impression from your original post, but the more you try to explain things, the more it sounds like you might be sabotaging these relationships by your own behaviour. I'm getting the sense that there is no comfort for you in the "range" of feelings between two extremes. So , you're either withdrawn or intense. Maybe the "intense" part of you is just too intense for those people. It doesn't mean you have no value as a person in a relationship - it just means that your expectation/requirement of putting out such intensity and needing to get back the same is unrealistic and counter-productive.
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