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Old 11-12-2012, 09:50 PM
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Just try not to confuse sex for love and intimacy. Keep both feet on the ground and be present rather than drifting off into fantasy, as you develop your relationships with them. And if you want clarification on what each of them is looking for with you, the only people to ask is them!
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An excellent blog post on hierarchy in polyamory:
solopoly.net/2014/10/31/why-im-not-a-secondary-partner-the-short-version/
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