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Old 11-12-2012, 01:29 AM
MeeraReed MeeraReed is offline
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Originally Posted by CielDuMatin View Post
I firmly believe that trying to put agreements in place which try to limit or somehow control how someone feels in their heart are counter-productive, repressive, and unrealistic.
Yes, definitely. I can't find a positive way of viewing a situation where someone would say, "You can sleep with my spouse but you two can't develop feelings for each other." Seems unrealistic at the very least. Controlling & unhealthy at worst.

On the other hand, people who choose to be monogamous together are choosing to limit and/or control their feelings for other people, aren't they?
Single, straight, female, solo, non-monogamous.
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