I could say a MILLION things.
First-you don't STOP loving someone.
Love doesn't STOP.
That said-if you want a real life version of how a group of people CAN take a fuck up like this and create a beautiful loving poly family-go read the beginning posts by Maca and I. They start in September of this year. If you click on our profiles you can find them...
"Love As Thou Wilt"