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Old 11-10-2012, 09:56 AM
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I don't think you have any reason to feel badly at all, seems pretty natural to me. I get turned on for whatever reason - erotica, good thoughts about another human, really fucking tasty dinner - but if I'm having sex it's them I'm having sex with and paying attention to.

Unless I'm fantasizing about that stuff more than I am enjoying the person I'm with who I'm actually having sex with, I don't give it a second thought.
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