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Old 11-08-2012, 10:15 PM
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Why did she move in with you? I never understand why so many people think they have to all live together to be poly. She hasn't had any readjustment time from living with her ex. Plus, there would naturally be tension if you move someone in to live with a couple who has their own set ways of doing things, but it also sounds like she moved in without your husband having much to say about it. And now she's in his space and he's irritated. Why don't you just date her separately while she lives on her own? I think that would help smooth things quite a bit.
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