Looking for some much needed advice!
We have a difficult situation that I am looking for much needed advice on.
My husband and I have been together almost 20 years. We have been married almost 15 years. We have had an open relationship for day 1.
Over this past year I met a woman, I shall call her C. I met her through another woman whom I was tyring to make things work and they failed. So C decided we did not need to stop being friends.
Over the spring things blossomed for me and C, however C was involved in a lesbian relationship. My Husband, I shall call him S, wanted to get to know her, but it wasnt as sucessfull as any of us would have hoped. S works long hours and social activity isn't something he can easily come by.
Me and C, fell in love. She moved out of the other girlfriends house and into ours.
My first error, I slept with C on our wedding anniversary.
Strike one against me.
S and C really did not get an opportunity to get to know each other.
Strike 2 against me.
While seperated from us, C slept with someone else and I knew about it but did not tell S, thought never occured to me about any STD's. We slept with C afterwards.
Strike 3 against me.
Now I'm trying to keep us all together because I love them both.
S can't stand to be around C. He's trying just to make me happy.
I want to be with them both.
Does anyone have any suggestions on how to pull this together and fix us?
We are open to suggestons.
Let me know if you need more information or if I left any important stuff out.