If it helps.
Low sex drive in men is very under-reported. Its more common to hear husbands whinge about low sex drive wives. There are some good books available on this very subject . If it's the intimacy with your husband that is missing, maybe that's the area that requires your attention . I have absolutely no doubt that you have done everything you can think of to change your situation, and that you probably feel that you are being pushed in a direction that you never thought you would have to consider. If there is even one thing that you can learn from some of the books i have read then maybe that's the answer you are looking for . If you are interested try these authors , Michele Weiner Davis , and Bob Berkowitz and Susan Yager-Berkowitz .