Hi. Welcome to the forum.
FYI: If you are looking for a looking for a HBB- hot bi-sexual babe- to form a poly-fi triad within the confines of an established married couple, then you are what is referred to in the poly community as unicorn hunters. There are many, many many unicorn hunters out there, so good luck to you in your quest.
Here's a link to a very tongue-in-cheek look at the quest you're taking on: http://www.obsidianfields.com/lj/hot...hart-large.gif
Also, which Lancaster? TX, OH, PA, some other Lancaster I don't know about? I know an HBB near Lancaster TX.