Also, monogamous people are allowed to experiment with casual sex when they don't feel ready for a serious relationship (i.e., in college, in your 20s, when you're getting over a breakup, etc). Why can't a poly couple experiment with keeping other partners casual?
I'm also not aware of all these "other resources" for non-poly forms of non-monogamy. I've looked, and all I found were swinger sites.
I'm very bothered by the closing of that thread.
Single, straight, female, solo, non-monogamous.