met my husband almost 20 years ago at the birthday party of a mutual friend.
met both my current loves on online poly dating sites.
early forties, straight.
the guys: Ren - husband; Curlz - bf of 2 years, Brig - bf of 7 months; Knight - non-sexual bf; MrBrown - it's complicated
Ren's girls: Lou - gf of 2 years, Liz - very new gf