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Old 11-07-2012, 09:04 PM
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If I were you, I'd Skype and have phone conversations frequently to see if you really would hit it off, before considering making such a long trip. But I'm the type of person who does not prefer to be in LDRs, though I've tried.

Also, you said in another thread that you find very few poly people local to you on OKC - but that may be that you are limiting yourself needlessly by searching only for poly people. There are plenty of people who would be open to poly who have never even heard of the word, or who choose not to identify as poly in their profile. So, use the Questions people answer to find them, not just the keyword "poly" (and its various forms).
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An excellent blog post on hierarchy in polyamory:

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