Well, R took me home to have dinner with rosevette, her kids and M on our second date
He said later that though it might have seemed a bit fast for most folks, he knew I could handle it. And to be honest, it was so refreshing to meet a potential partner's other partner so early in the process. Talk about setting my mind at ease about what their relationship really was!
It was also great to see how the family interacted and to realize that my ideal version of poly actually existed and this pretty cool new guy was living it.
The funny part was that from the moment I walked in the door, I kept thinking that rosevette looked familiar but I couldn't place her.
It was some time later that she mentioned she and I had chatted a bit on OkC several months before R popped up in my quiver there
We both just got busy with kids and life and had simply lost touch.