Some people on here will post helpful suggestions, but in the meantime what part of the country are you in , and can you give us a general description of yourself and your interests besides paganism. There are people looking for someone to join their families and the fact that you have two little ones doesn't hurt your chances of finding a family at all since people with kids always need someone to help with coparenting.
My own suggestion is to go where people go who are interested in the same things you are such as classes, volunteering and things like that. Good luck and welcome aboard.
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