I should also say, that I live in one county with my wife (F) and I work away a couple of days a week and that is where I see E. in that respect it's quite separate (and could stay so) though I'm very happy to see them meet and get to know each other.
If F gets to know someone, it's more likely to be local to where we live, and I would need to accommodate that a bit more readily (including time away when I'm home).. F also doesn't want me to get to know someone on our doorstep, as she says she would find that a bit close for comfort.
F is however actually well adjusted in many ways, and isn't imposing many rules and is attempting to adapt to the changes opennly, calmly and quickly.
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